Four Types of Friends Buddha Thinks You Need
The Helper: This friend is always there when you need them. They protect you and your belongings, especially when you’re vulnerable. When you’re scared, they offer safety. If you ask for something, they’ll give even more if they can.
The Enduring Friend: This is someone you can trust with your deepest secrets. They keep your secrets safe and will go to great lengths to help you. In times of trouble, they might even risk their own life to support you.
The Mentor: A mentor guides you away from mistakes and leads you toward good deeds. They share important knowledge and always help you find the right path in life.
The Compassionate Friend: This friend celebrates your successes and never takes pleasure in your misfortunes. They stand up for you, prevent others from speaking poorly of you, and always speak well of you to others.
These insights are from the Sigalovada Sutta.
