Australian TV presenter Ally Langdon fought back tears as she spoke with Andrea and Paul Haynes, a couple facing an unimaginable heartbreak. They had to make the gut-wrenching decision to withdraw life support for their 13-year-old daughter, Esra, after a tragic accident that involved a dangerous trend known as “chroming.”
Esra was the kind of girl who lit up every room. She was full of energy, always ready for a challenge, and loved by everyone who knew her. But her promising life was cut short after she tried chroming— inhaling toxic chemicals to get high. What was supposed to be a harmless sleepover turned into a nightmare when Esra used aerosol deodorant, which caused her heart to stop and left her with severe brain damage.
Andrea and Paul received that dreaded call—the one every parent fears—asking them to come pick up their daughter. What seemed like an innocent hangout with friends turned into the beginning of a heartbreaking journey. Despite their hope and prayers, doctors gave them the devastating news: Esra’s brain damage was too severe to recover from. For eight agonizing days, they held onto hope, but in the end, they had no choice but to say goodbye.
In a brave and emotional interview, Andrea and Paul shared their sorrow with the world, describing the painful moment they held their daughter as she took her last breath. It was a moment no parent should ever have to experience.
Their story isn’t just about grief—it’s a warning. Chroming has claimed too many young lives, and Andrea and Paul are now speaking out to warn other parents. They’re urging everyone to have those tough but necessary conversations with their kids about the dangers of this trend.
Esra’s tragic death isn’t in vain. Her parents are determined to raise awareness and make sure no other family has to endure the same unimaginable pain. Through their advocacy, they’re hoping to prevent other parents from facing this kind of heartbreak.
Esra’s memory lives on in the efforts her family is making to protect other kids. As we all mourn the loss of a bright, young life, let’s remember the importance of open conversations and education in keeping our children safe. Will you share this story to help raise awareness and save lives?
