“They say, ‘You don’t know what you’ve got until it’s gone.’ But that’s not true, is it? You knew exactly what you had—you just didn’t think you’d lose it.”
Do you believe someone will stick around no matter how you treat them? Deep down, you know the answer. It’s a no.
We often take people for granted. It’s not just about your partner—it could be your mom, dad, or sibling. Do you appreciate the weight your mom carries? Most of us don’t. We think raising kids and running the house is just “what she does.” But we forget she’s human, just like us.
Ever wonder why people cry so much when they lose someone? That wave of regret hits hard. You start thinking, “I should’ve spent more time with them. I should’ve treated them better.” Guilt creeps in, and you feel ashamed.
The sad truth is, we only realize someone’s value when we’re on the brink of losing them—or worse, when they’re gone.
Those who’ve come close to losing someone but got lucky enough to get them back know this feeling all too well. They know they took that person for granted, and they’ll do anything to never make that mistake again.
We shouldn’t take anyone for granted. One day, we might regret it. To avoid that, remind yourself:
Nothing is permanent.
Nothing lasts forever—not your parents, not your home, not your money, not even your health. Yet, we often ignore this truth until it’s too late. We only realize what we had once it’s gone.
So, remember, nothing is permanent. All you have is right now—not the next minute, not tomorrow. That’s why it’s so important to cherish the moment.
Expect nothing in return but appreciate everything.
We tend to think if we help someone, they owe us in return. But that’s not true. No one is obligated to help you back. Help others because you want to, not because you expect something. And if someone does even the smallest thing for you, show them your gratitude.
Express your love.
“The little things are often the big things.” You don’t need fancy gifts to show love. A simple call in the middle of the day, or sending flowers to your parents, can mean the world to them. Take every chance to show your love, so you won’t regret it later.
Cherish the moment.
We’re often caught up in the “could haves” and “should haves.” What does that mean? We waste time thinking, “I could’ve done that,” or, “I should’ve said that.” And in doing so, we miss the moment we’re in and the person right in front of us.
Promise yourself not to worry about things beyond your control. If it’s meant to be, it’ll be. Have faith in that.
Live for today, not tomorrow. Set your ego aside and say, “I love you.”
Because tomorrow isn’t promised. So, enjoy and cherish the time you have now, while you still can.
